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As most of you know this is just the personal alter-ego for my photography blog. In an effort to keep it professional, I made my photo blog and personal blog separate. I made my photo blog first, long before I thought I’d do any personal blogging here. I made my personal blog after people began coming over here more and didn’t realize, at the time, the limitations of a sub-blog. Some of them I’m just discovering now. So I made a new tumblr that I will be changing to fromthechaos. If you want to keep following me, I’ll be posting later once I’ve done the SN change. But for now, if you get followed by any variation of this one, just follow back!

A vocabulary lesson, though:

ableism |ˈābəˌlizəm| (also ablism) noun - discrimination in favor of able-bodied people.

This word was in no way applicable to anything that was said. Go read a dictionary and get back to me.

Also how is dating a girl with Asperger’s, a disorder on the Autism Spectrum being ableist? Or working as a nanny for an Autistic boy or working with countless disabled people? If, in fact, that is what you meant to say.

Mostly because my battery is dying but also because I’m just done with fucking stans right now. You didn’t win, you aren’t superior, you’re honestly just a bunch of assholes and you’re exhausting me. I won’t be replying anymore. If you can’t handle that I like Blaine and I’m a Brittana shipper, you can gtfo my blog. If you’re offended that I don’t find Kurt attractive aside from BTW, you can also gtfo (hi, I’m a lesbian, I don’t find pouty gay boys attractive, my bff jared in high school aside.) I was honestly just continuing a conversation with my girlfriend on tumblr and it turned into this huge argument that I don’t have the energy to deal with on my day off.

Peace the fuck out and if you disagree with me leave my blog the fuck alone, no1curr.

giraffeontherocks:

fromthechaos:

giraffeontherocks:

fromthechaos:

flipkelly:

fromthechaos:

HOW THE HELL WAS THAT EVEN MEAN? They never met at that point. He didn’t know her from a hole in the wall. She was in a room full, and I mean FULL, of couples or groups of friends who were there for each other and she was A.L.O.N.E. She had no one with her on Valentine’s day of all days. He didn’t know what had gone down (you can’t even argue that Kurt told him, because Kurt had no idea what had gone down either unless Finn’s braincells allowed for chronological story telling, which I doubt). All he did was find the ONE PERSON WHO WAS ALONE IN BREADSTIX ON VALENTINE’S DAY AND SING ONE LINE OF ONE SONG TO HER. I’m not the world’s biggest Blaine fan (Klainers, feel free to have a pudding wrestling fight to determine that one) I’m actually probably one of the biggest Santana/Naya fans you will meet. That doesn’t mean that what the boy did wasn’t 100% fucking accurate. She pushed everyone away, SHE fucked herself over. It’s a fact. Watch the episode without fangoggles on.

#you don’t know me bitch you cannot call me stupid because I have an opinion

i just called you stupid, so obviously i can call you stupid 

anyway, going up to someone you don’t know who’s sitting alone on valentine’s day and gesturing to them while singing the line “sometimes love doesn’t come at at”—suggesting that no one will ever love her is mean and also rude, what world do you live in?

he didn’t have to sing that line to anyone, but he chose to do it and be an asshole anyway

…Have you even watched the episode? I’m serious, have you? Was there any malice in what he did, at all? Was he in fact doing it to be an asshole? Or was he just being funny/ironic/appropriate/honest? He was singing to just about anyone. Did he pick her out for being solo? Probably. Could he have just been walking past her and crooned to her? Maybe. Was he being an asshole? What’s the point? Honestly, I’ve yet to see Blaine actually do anything blatantly Asshole-ish. He suffers from an ego (being the star of the “celebrity” club at his school, just being honest Blainers, he does have a bit of an ego) and a bit of hubris along with that (in case that word was possibly too complex for someone who uses stupid as a big, bad insult hu•bris |ˈ(h)yoōbris| noun - having excessive pride or self-confidence) and maybe a little bit… awkward at times… but honestly, I’ve never really seen him be an ASSHOLE. He stands up for people that he believes in and gives people a chance, even Karofsky. Also, clearly Santana doesn’t HATE him or she wouldn’t have stuck up for Blaine and Kurt in the hallway with the whole nut breaking spiel. Honestly, you can think whatever you want, but you’re just proving to me that you’re fucking crazy. Fiction is fiction. Getting angry with real people over their appreciation of a fictional character that you happen not to like for irrational reasons makes you crazy. Also, your judgment of my intelligence based on my defense of a character you dislike does not make me stupid, and you saying it twice doesn’t make it true. You don’t know me, actually, we’ve never met. If you and I were up against each other in Jeopardy, I’m fairly confident that I’d kick your ass. So no, I’m not stupid, thank you very much. Please go back to being a stan somewhere far, far away from me. I’m done responding to you. So if you say anything else, you and your other stan friends can go giggle in a corner that you got in the last word, oh gosh, what a burn, I must be crying or something. Or rolling my eyes. Or whatever. Scurry off now.

ignoring you being incredibly patronising at the end there and the stuff about SLL

how was Blaine telling the boy he knew had feelings for him that he wasn’t sexy at all and instead that he looked like he was having “gas pains” or whatever not him being an asshole

I honestly snortgiggled because honestly, until Born This Way, to me, Kurt had about the sexual appeal of a gassy infant. Again, Blaine was just being painfully honest.

Also, I love how Santana is a bitch all the time, and all the Santana stans are okay wit it (again, I don’t care, she’s hilarious and she keeps it real) but the second anyone is “mean” to her (Lauren, Blaine, whatever) it’s like THE WORST THING EVER. Seriously, though.

oh my god your passive aggressive tags tho

i’m not even a santana stan and nobody is my “little friend”

so Blaine tearing his friend down until the point he was so uncomfortable he was in tears and had to ask Blaine to leave is just dear old Blaine being painfully honest right

Would you rather have your friend be honest with you, even if it hurt (lets face it, truth hurts) or lie to you to make you feel better and then have you make a complete ass out of yourself at a competition trying to look “sexy” and in fact looking like he has gas pains? Because he did look uncomfortably awkward up there on stage trying to be sexy. Sorry if that makes you cry because it’s painfully honest about a fictional character.

flipkelly:

fromthechaos:

I honestly snortgiggled because honestly, until Born This Way, to me, Kurt had about the sexual appeal of a gassy infant. Again, Blaine was just being painfully honest.

…you seem upset…

indianajosey-deactivated2012071 asked: It's okay... we're going to be in theaters everywhere, in 3D. In a movie with the Glee Cast... in a whole segment!

HAVE FUN ON THE ALPHABET RUG, KIDS. I'll be over here, dealing with the good karma from not being a bratty stan and enjoying the loveliness of hanging out with the sane people of the fandom... :D

Oh oh oh and let’s not forget that we’ve met Naya and Heather and Dianna and others and they actually LIKE us because we’re not creepy stan assholes. Thank god we have common sense.

They don’t even deserve the alphabet rug. They should all be huddled in the time out corner during recess.

giraffeontherocks:

fromthechaos:

flipkelly:

fromthechaos:

HOW THE HELL WAS THAT EVEN MEAN? They never met at that point. He didn’t know her from a hole in the wall. She was in a room full, and I mean FULL, of couples or groups of friends who were there for each other and she was A.L.O.N.E. She had no one with her on Valentine’s day of all days. He didn’t know what had gone down (you can’t even argue that Kurt told him, because Kurt had no idea what had gone down either unless Finn’s braincells allowed for chronological story telling, which I doubt). All he did was find the ONE PERSON WHO WAS ALONE IN BREADSTIX ON VALENTINE’S DAY AND SING ONE LINE OF ONE SONG TO HER. I’m not the world’s biggest Blaine fan (Klainers, feel free to have a pudding wrestling fight to determine that one) I’m actually probably one of the biggest Santana/Naya fans you will meet. That doesn’t mean that what the boy did wasn’t 100% fucking accurate. She pushed everyone away, SHE fucked herself over. It’s a fact. Watch the episode without fangoggles on.

#you don’t know me bitch you cannot call me stupid because I have an opinion

i just called you stupid, so obviously i can call you stupid 

anyway, going up to someone you don’t know who’s sitting alone on valentine’s day and gesturing to them while singing the line “sometimes love doesn’t come at at”—suggesting that no one will ever love her is mean and also rude, what world do you live in?

he didn’t have to sing that line to anyone, but he chose to do it and be an asshole anyway

…Have you even watched the episode? I’m serious, have you? Was there any malice in what he did, at all? Was he in fact doing it to be an asshole? Or was he just being funny/ironic/appropriate/honest? He was singing to just about anyone. Did he pick her out for being solo? Probably. Could he have just been walking past her and crooned to her? Maybe. Was he being an asshole? What’s the point? Honestly, I’ve yet to see Blaine actually do anything blatantly Asshole-ish. He suffers from an ego (being the star of the “celebrity” club at his school, just being honest Blainers, he does have a bit of an ego) and a bit of hubris along with that (in case that word was possibly too complex for someone who uses stupid as a big, bad insult hu•bris |ˈ(h)yoōbris| noun - having excessive pride or self-confidence) and maybe a little bit… awkward at times… but honestly, I’ve never really seen him be an ASSHOLE. He stands up for people that he believes in and gives people a chance, even Karofsky. Also, clearly Santana doesn’t HATE him or she wouldn’t have stuck up for Blaine and Kurt in the hallway with the whole nut breaking spiel. Honestly, you can think whatever you want, but you’re just proving to me that you’re fucking crazy. Fiction is fiction. Getting angry with real people over their appreciation of a fictional character that you happen not to like for irrational reasons makes you crazy. Also, your judgment of my intelligence based on my defense of a character you dislike does not make me stupid, and you saying it twice doesn’t make it true. You don’t know me, actually, we’ve never met. If you and I were up against each other in Jeopardy, I’m fairly confident that I’d kick your ass. So no, I’m not stupid, thank you very much. Please go back to being a stan somewhere far, far away from me. I’m done responding to you. So if you say anything else, you and your other stan friends can go giggle in a corner that you got in the last word, oh gosh, what a burn, I must be crying or something. Or rolling my eyes. Or whatever. Scurry off now.

ignoring you being incredibly patronising at the end there and the stuff about SLL

how was Blaine telling the boy he knew had feelings for him that he wasn’t sexy at all and instead that he looked like he was having “gas pains” or whatever not him being an asshole

I honestly snortgiggled because honestly, until Born This Way, to me, Kurt had about the sexual appeal of a gassy infant. Again, Blaine was just being painfully honest.

Also, I love how Santana is a bitch all the time, and all the Santana stans are okay wit it (again, I don’t care, she’s hilarious and she keeps it real) but the second anyone is “mean” to her (Lauren, Blaine, whatever) it’s like THE WORST THING EVER. Seriously, though.

somewhereaclockisticking asked: Can I also just state that anyone who can only use "stupid" and "idiot" in their argument is the dunce here. Honeycakes you're not a hardass. You're just an imbecile. I hope one day Naya Rivera snubs these psychotic people, poor thing doesn't need to witness mental instability to that degree.

couldn’t have said it better myself.